Lacy smiling in a moody jazz bar with a martini

Hi, I’m Lacy.

Let’s skip the apps.

Neuroscientist.
Jazz bar regular.
Looking for something real.

Propose a Date
Lacy smiling outside

About Me

The short version

I’m a neuroscientist by day and a jazz enthusiast, museum lover, and hot pilates girl by night.

I love meaningful conversations, exploring new restaurants way too often, and believing connection > perfection.

I’m looking for a kind, intelligent partner to build something real with.

Let’s see if we’re a match. ♡

🍎NYC Based
🔬 Science Girl
🎵Jazz Lover
🍸 Cocktail Enthusiast
💐Plant Mom
❤️Looking for a Serious Relationship
💗

Kind

💖

Emotionally
available

🧠

Curious

💑

Can demonstrate
initiative/plan dates

Wants a real partnership that leads to hopefully forever

What I’m looking for

A sweet, steady kind of love.

I’m looking for someone thoughtful, emotionally present, curious about the world, and genuinely excited to build something real.

Kindness first

Someone warm, considerate, and gentle with the people around them.

Intentional dating

I’m drawn to people who know they want partnership and are open to showing up consistently while we get to know each other.

Best-friend energy

Laughing over coffee, talking about weird little thoughts, cooking dinner, taking walks, and making ordinary life feel special.

🎷

Depth + playfulness

Someone who can talk about music, science, books, feelings, big dreams, or absolutely nothing, and make it all feel easy.

🌿

A gentle life together

I love the idea of building a home full of plants, music, good food, affection, and mutual care.

🕯️

Romance that feels real

Thoughtful dates, little gestures, emotional safety, mutual effort, and the feeling that we’re choosing each other on purpose.

Ideal match

You might be my kind of person if...

  • You’re kind, thoughtful, and emotionally steady.
  • You're between the ages of 25 and 35
  • Curious and intellectually engaged- bonus points for STEM, medicine, and research careers
  • You are stable, motivated, and passionate about what you do
  • You’re intentional about love and excited by the idea of building a life with someone

Why you’ll like me

I bring warmth, depth, and a lot of heart.

  • I’m affectionate, thoughtful, and very invested in the people I care about.
  • I’ll remember the little things that make you feel loved.
  • I’m nerdy, romantic, and always curious about the world.
  • I think love should add color to your life, not drain it.

Get to know me

Who *IS* Lacy, really?

Mission Trip

Service to Others

Cura Personalis

Cooking for You

I Show Care in Details

The way I listen, remember, and follow through.

Pinky Promise

I invest in the people I choose

And I expect that to be mutual.

Pilates

Pilates, kickboxing, MMA

I like to stay in shape and do things that make my body feel good.

Foodie Toast

Foodie Endeavors

Trying new spots is my love language.

Cowboy

Western Movies & Cowboy Culture

I love learning about the wild west and watching cowboy movies

Godzilla

GODZILLAAAAA

Ask me about it!

Disco

Disco Music

Especially the Bee Gees!

Horror

Scary Movies

Into the entire spectrum here, tbh

Anime

Anime

In search of my Tuxedo Mask!

Plant mom, science nerd, and firm believer that the best dates involve good conversation and even better ambiance.

I’m usually exploring a museum, trying a new foodie spot in the city, or winding down with jazz and a cocktail.

I’m looking for something intentional, warm, and lasting, with someone who values connection and intentionality as much as I do.

I love deeply, I'm fiercely loyal, and have so much to give to the right person.

If this resonates with you, please reach out!

Lacy standing in front of flowers
Martinis and live jazz

Martinis +
Jazz

Museum gallery

Museum +
Espresso

Indie Films

Film +
Discussion

Something Thoughtful

Mystery to Lacy
chosen by you!

If you can plan something thoughtful, you’re already ahead.

Lacy playing trumpet in a jazz club

I like a little depth

I like people who think about the world a lot, feel deeply, and notice things that others don't.

Bonus points if you:

  • love music, science, cooking, or people
  • think and feel really deeply about the world
  • or have something you’re deeply passionate about

Drop me a line!

I read every response.